Diary of a Wom'n

I have a pulsating ick factor happening right now.  It started from this morning.  I think I need to be honest with myself about something.  I'm not exactly the person Mo sees me to be, as much as he'd like.  And he's not exactly the kind of person I'd be forever happy with even though he appears picture perfect.  He's an acquarius and they're the most out of touch people when it comes to matters of the heart.  They're not the type who'll indulge in romance too much or utter flatteries to you.  Their excitment stems from intelligent discussions and meditation.  Romance is last on their list.  I'm not writing him off based on what his sign says but because he actually IS this way.  I noticed it.

Joel now is someone who's more like me in the romance department.  When we're together, we have raging passion.  He's incredibly driven by emotion and feelings.  He's open about his sexuality in a non-threatening kind of way and he's always eager to just sweep me away.  He's like a helium balloon ready to take off into the sky. Unfortunately, we can never be together.

I finally wrote back to Djibril.  He had written me way back in the end of Jan.  It's now near the end of March.  Apparently, his absence was due to his mother being ill.  He had to travel to Africa to visit her but eventually, she passed away.  He said he thought of me while he was away and he tried emailing me during the time he was there but the letters didn't go through.  Hopefully he responds and doesn't get offended by my long silence.  I had just been putting it off and before I new it, one day turned to weeks and weeks.

Tristan is the one I really have to connect with again.  The poor guy probably thinks I'm the biggest jerk in town.  I say I'll call him in a few days, but it usually ends up being months later.  I should really call him though and meet up this weekend.  Unless Mo wants to come down and see me.

Anyway, I'm trying to let go of my bad feelings about Mo.  I feel like it's over before it has even started.  What triggered this?  It's the fact that I responded to his email yesterday, and I wrote a lovely detailed letter, and he responded with only a few sentences in return.  It's the fact that on our date, he put gospel music on in his car.  It's that he lives far away like Isaac.  And to put the proverbial icing on the cake, his good friend's name is Isaac.  It's just all a bad sign, a nagging indication of an impending bad situation.

I'm going to do as Dee had said, keep it open and have my own fun.

GW

This week, I've been a material girl, let me tell you.  And these are my material things:

1.  I got a new blackberry phone (curve, to be exact).
2.  During my ortho appt, my ortho filed my teeth to even them out horizontally.  They look fabulous!
3.  I got a few clothes items for work that are very classy (and cheap!).
4.  I got new sofa sets for the living room.
5.  After a disappointing start, I finally found 2 pairs of glasses for such a great price and not to mention, one pair was prescription sun-glasses.
6.  I got more super magnets and they were on sale for about a quarter of the normal cost!
7.  To feed my obsessive compulsive behaviour and my paranoia, I bought a large lock for one of my classroom cabinets to lock in all of my school supplies.
8.  And tomorrow, I'll be perming my hair!  It's going to be such a relief not having to straighten it every time.

I love March Breaks.  I'd love April Breaks too.  Doesn't have the same ring to it though, eh?

GW

It's March Break week and I already have nothing to show for it.  At least the weather has been unbelievable.

Speaking of unbelievable things, I met someone really great.  His name is Mo.  Zee introduced us a few weeks ago and we started talking over the phone a bit.  Then over the weekend he asked me to go out for dinner for Monday evening.  I didn't have high expectations of him or our date but I aimed to make the best of it.  As it turned out we had a great time.  He is a nice person, very decent and appears trustworthy.  In fact, he's celebate and very faithful.  I've never dated anyone like him. 

We went out today as well.  Again, it was such a beautiful day that we had to enjoy it so we went to the lake and walked by the shore.

Mo and I have a lot in common as we discovered, it's almost uncanny.  I might even say he's the female version of me.  Aside from having the same background, we're both celibate, both have similar ambitions in life, both have similar weaknesses, both uphold similar values, both have never seen our home country but are making plans to go, and equally important, both have a great fashion sense! 

As I was with Mo both yesterday and today, my thoughts went to Isaac a few times.  For one thing, there were things Mo said that echoed what Isaac used to say to me (let's keep it b/w us for now, don't let me pressure you...maybe these are just generic things guys say).  Added to that is both Mo and Isaac live miles away, far enough to make it difficult to see each other every weekend.

Ultimately, I think I'm afraid the same thing may happen to Mo and I and I don't think I could go through that again.  I'm also afraid I won't let myself love Mo down the road as much as I did Isaac.  I shouldn't think these thoughts but it's the fear that's making me have these thoughts.

He went back to Kitchener this afternoon.  He asked to attend a church service with me at my church on one of these weekends.  I think that would be nice.  It's wishful thinking at this point but since we both had been thinking of travelling back to our home country, we thought of perhaps doing it together this summer since we were planning to go there anyway.  That would actually be fabulous to have someone to share the experience with (and get lost in the city with).

PS. We're saving our first kiss too.

GW